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Private Identity Advisory for Men
Recalibrate your presence. Restore your relationship. Redefine yourself.
You've built success everywhere but here...
At work, you lead.
Among friends, you’re respected.
But at home? It feels like you’re failing.
The tension. The arguments that never quite resolve. The distance you can’t seem to close.
You’ve tried reasoning, giving space, providing more — yet nothing shifts.
And the harder you try, the further away she feels.
Until in the quiet moments, the question comes:
“Am I losing her… or am I losing myself?”
The Hidden Story
It’s not about what you provide or how much you care.
It’s about the silent story shaping how you show up — the identity you’ve been living from without realising it.
That story runs the dynamic. It decides whether you lead with presence or pressure. Whether she responds with warmth or resistance.
Until that story shifts, nothing else will.
The Journey: Your 12 Weeks of Recalibration
Phase 1: Unmask (Weeks 1–3)
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1 x one-to-one Private diagnostic: we uncover the hidden identity story sabotaging your relationship.
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Identify the exact triggers that spark conflict and why your “solutions” haven’t worked.
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Build a personalised map of your relationship dynamic — where it breaks down, and how to shift it whilst receiving real time voice support when needed.
Tangible outcomes:
✔️ Immediate clarity on why your relationship feels stuck.
✔️ Relief from the cycle of overthinking and second-guessing.
✔️ A clear action map showing how to stop repeating the same arguments.
Phase 2: Recalibrate (Weeks 4–8)
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2x one-to-one recalibration sessions to shift the story at the identity level per month.
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Learn practical ways of leading conversations that dissolve tension instead of fuelling it.
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Private voice access between sessions — discreet support when real-life situations arise.
Tangible outcomes:
✔️ Noticeable change at home, arguments that once spiralled now end calmly.
✔️ Tension eases, and your partner begins to respond with openness rather than resistance.
✔️ You stop over-giving, fixing, or proving, and start leading from calm strength.
Phase 3: Redefine (Weeks 9–12)
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Embed your recalibrated identity so it becomes second nature.
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Master a communication framework that makes your partner feel safe and respected, while you remain grounded in who you are.
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Create your long-term blueprint: how to maintain respect, intimacy, and balance in your relationship alongside your success.
Tangible outcomes:
✔️ A relationship that feels connected and calm instead of tense and unpredictable.
✔️ Renewed respect and intimacy that grows without effort.
✔️ Confidence in yourself, you know how to lead both in business and at home.
What this means for you
By the end of 12 weeks, you will:
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Understand the exact story that’s been sabotaging your relationship.
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Know how to show up in a way that creates calm, respect, and connection.
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Have practical strategies for handling conflict without escalation.
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Feel secure in your relationship and in yourself as a man.
Shankar Rampersaud NY
Private Guidance, Not Programs
This is not therapy.
It’s not a course.
It’s not group coaching.
It’s discreet, one-to-one identity recalibration designed for high-achieving men.
Sessions are private. The work is precise.
And the results are profound.
Your investment: £12,000
This is premium private work.
I work with a limited number of men each year to ensure depth and discretion.
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12-Week Private Recalibration: £12,000
For men who know the cost of staying stuck is far greater than the investment to change it.
