The Secure Woman Identity Reset
30 Days to Reclaim Calm, Confidence & Connection, Without Overgiving to Earn It
You’ve spent years becoming the woman who can hold it all.
Now it’s time to become the woman who feels held by herself.
YOU'RE THE STRONG ONE.
THE STEADY ONE.
THE ONE THAT EVERYONE LEANS ON.
You feel everything deeply.
You think before you speak.
You give your all.
You’ve done the work.
Therapy, books, workshops.
You’re emotionally intelligent and self-aware — the one who “gets it.”
But when it comes to love, friendship, or family…
You still find yourself shrinking. Overthinking. Spiralling.
You’re constantly asking:
Why do I feel invisible unless I’m useful?
Why do I keep attracting people who can’t meet me where I am?
Why does love feel like something I have to earn?
Here’s the truth no one tells women like you:
It’s not that you’re not enough, it’s that your nervous system was wired for survival identity, not the identity you desire to have.
Welcome to the Reset.
The Secure Woman is a 30-day identity recalibration designed to help you stop performing for love and start receiving from grounded, self-led power.
This is where you shed the emotional roles that have kept you small and step into an identity rooted in safety, sovereignty, and calm.
Whether it’s dating, long-term love, friendships, or family patterns, this is about showing up as your full self, unapologetically.
No more over-functioning. No more over-giving. No more waiting to be chosen.
This is for you if :
You feel calm in your career but chaotic in your relationships
You’re fluent in emotions, but exhausted from doing all the emotional labour
You constantly second-guess how you come across
You find it easier to hold others than to let yourself be held
You’re tired of spiralling in silence, wondering why no one checks on you
You know you deserve better but don’t quite know how to feel that truth in your body
Inside the 30-Day Reset
You’ll receive one powerful, identity-shifting prompt each day.
Rooted in neuroscience, psychology, nervous system regulation, and belief re-patterning via NLP,
Each one is short. Potent. Designed to integrate, not overwhelm.
Expect:
Rewiring old patterns around worth, boundaries, and visibility
Regulating your nervous system so your triggers don’t hijack your clarity
Reclaiming space in your body, your mind, and your relationships
Reframing the way you see yourself and what you’re allowed to receive
You’ll stop…
Walking on eggshells just to keep the peace
Overthinking texts and boundaries
Performing to be liked or loved
Carrying others while abandoning yourself
And you’ll start…
Feeling safe in your presence
Setting boundaries without guilt
Leading with grounded self-respect
Attracting connections that honour your capacity and depth
What's Included :
30 Daily Prompts
One soul-shifting prompt delivered straight to your portal each day.
Quiet. Grounded. Life-changing.
Brain Re-wiring resources
Voice-guided somatic and mindset practices to drop into calm quickly.
Personalised 1:1 Voice Coaching Support with Sam throughout your 30 days for real-time leadership (VIP Tier)
Your Investment
Tiered Pricing: Choose the option that’s right for you.
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£33 – Full Reset Access
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£122 (Special VIP Pricing normally £333) – Full Reset + 1:1 Voice Coaching
